Sinasaktan ng asawa sa japan

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7yrs na po akong kasal sa asawa ko na fil-Japanese marunong po sya mag tagalog Kaya wala po kami problema sa communication sa pinas po kami kinasal, matanda po ako ng 5yrs sa Kanya, mag 3yrs palang po ako dto sa japan, 3 po anak namin isang 3 yrs old, 1yr old and 4month old po, halos sunod sunod po ang pag bubuntis ko, ang problema ko po physically emotionally and mentally na abuse ako ng asawa ko sya po ang may trabaho Samin dalawa ako po nasa stage po ng nagpapalaki ng mga anak namin, sobrang nahihirapan po un kalooban ko tuwing nasasaktan nya ako dahil nakikita ng mga bata at naririnig nila, mahal ko po ang asawa ko dahil simula palang din po ng relasyon at pagsasama namin medyo nanakit na sya at masakit sya magsalita sakin halos pakiramdam ko ako na un pinaka stupido na tao, napapalampas ko po un lahat ng pananakit nya sakin at pang babae nya dati kc akala ko pag magka anak na kami magbabago sya, first month po ng pag stay ko dto sa japan nag away na po kami dahil sa wla nyang interest laruin ang anak namin at Nung inaayos ko po damitan nya may nakita akong condoms Pero napatawad ko sya na halos ako pa un inaway nya that time, tas nalaman ko na nagsusugal po sya, alam nyo po Nung wala pa kaming anak di po ako nang hihingi ng sustento sa kanya, na Obliga nalang sya nung nag ka baby na kami at Kinuha na nga nya kaming mag ina, tas nabuntis nya ako ulit però un masakit Po dun kahit buntis ako pag nag aaway kami nasasaktan nya ako at tinatakot takot pa nya ako, ganun din po sa third child namin khit buntis ako nasasaktan nya ako pinapalakas ko nalang Po loob ko para sa mga bata, però ngaun di ko na Kaya pananakit nya at may mga anak po akong gustong protektahan dahil ayoko po ng gantong environment ang kalakihan Nila, kaso po pag sinasabi ko na makikipag hiwalay na ako, sinasabi Niya kukunin daw nya anak namin, wla daw ako mapapala iuuwi daw nya ako ng pinas natatakot po ako mawalay sa mga anak ko, temporary residence visa palang po ako di ko alam Kung ano habol ko Kung sakaling hiwalayan ko na asawa ko, super stress na ako ngaun Po kakatapos Lang namin mag away hirap na kalooban ko di ko alam San ako tatakbo, tinatatagan ko nlng Po loob ko para sa mga Anak namin, mahal ko asawa ko mabait sya pag di mainit ulo nya un sugal nya natanggal na at un pang babae nya wla na, kaso suko na ako ayoko po malayo sa mga anak ko,tinatakot nya ako... salamat po sana ma paliwanagan nyo po ako kung May karapatan po ba ako sa mga anak ko Kung maghiwalay kami....


 

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Adelaimar C Arias-Jose
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You are right. You are abused emotionally, psychologically, and physically. You have an obligation to yourself to survive. You have an obligation to your children to survive. You must get help. You must file a complaint in Japan and get yourself and your children into a shelter. You must be kept safe.

Under the law, children below 7 years old should stay with their primary caregiver, in this case, their mother. Your spouse has the obligation to support you and your children while you are still taking care of them. The mother is in the best position to take care of her infant children, lalo na if the mother is breastfeeding her children.

Please get help.

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Adelaimar C Arias-Jose

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