Para matigil na panggugulo sa amin, kakasuhan nagbanta, threats live-in partner

Cutey Galq
is a own business in United Arab Emirates

Humihingi po ako ng payo atty. kung ano dapat kong gawin. Yong asawa ko po kasi nagbanta na kakasuhan po ako pati din yong leave in partner ko. Andito po kami sa Dubai for more than 7 yrs. at nagsasama po kami ng matagal. Sa katunayan po yong asawa ko din po ex abroad din siya noon. May kinakasama po din siya dun ng 8 yrs. Ngayon po nasa pinas na po siya ng 2 yrs na din tas nalaman ko din po nagkaroon siya ng bagong kinakasama. May anak po kami 2 pero nasa magulang ko po nakatira. Ngayon po ginugulo niya po kami. Kakasuhan daw niya kami samantalang di naman niya inaalagaan mga anak ko at wala sa poder niya. Marami po siya banta po atty. Ano po ba ang ikakaso niya samin at ano po pwde ikaso sa kanya na may kinakasama na din siya? Para matigil na po siya sa panggugulo sa amin


Translation: My husband has threatened to file a lawsuit/case against me, including my live-in partner. We have been in Dubai (United Arab Emirates) for 7 years, and have been living together for a long time now.

In truth, my ex-husband was also an overseas Filipino worker (OFW) and he also had another live in partner for 8 years. He has been in the Philippines now for 2 years, and I found out that he has a new live-in partner.

We have 2 kids/children, but they both live with my parents. Now my ex-husband is pestering us. He says that he will file a case against us. But he is not taking of our kids, and our kids are not even with him. He has a lot of threats. What case/s could he file against us? And what case can we file against him, since he also is living with another woman. I want to do this, so that he would stop pestering me/us.



 

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Adelaimar C Arias-Jose
is a Legal expert in the Philippines
Sa totoo, kung kayo'y kasal, may karapatan siyang mag-habla laban sa iyo. Kung siya'y dati'y nagkaroon ng kinakasama pero hindi ka naghabla laban sa kanya, choice mo iyon na hindi ipag-laban ang mga karapatan mo. Hindi mo ngayon puedeng sabihin sa kanya na, huwag ka niyang guluhin dahil sa hindi mo siya dati ginulo.

As long as kasal ka sa kanya, lagi ka niyang guguluhin until magpa-annul ka ng kasal ninyo. natural lamang iyon, kung kasal kayo, may obligasyon kayong maging tapat sa bawat isa. Kung may isang hindi tpat, may karapatan ang mag-asawa na maghabla sa pagkakasira ng pagsasama.

Ngayon, kung may prueba ka naman na pati siya'y hindi naging tapat, ito ay iyong depensa. He who comes to court must come with clean hands. Kaso, dahil sa ikaw ay kasal, dapat batid mo ang mga posibleng consequences ng iyong desisyong makipag-live-in ngayong alam mo namang may asawa ka. Huwag ka nang magtaka na ikaw ay ginugulo ng iyong asawa.....
Mike Tolentino
is in United Arab Emirates
atty. pano kong parehas kami may kinakasama na at ginugulo niya pa rin kami pati leave in partner ko po ginugulo niya tas nalaman ko po na buntis siya sa kinakasama niya at nakunan daw kailangan po namin maghiwalay atty. hindi ko po kc alam kong ano ground ang pwde ko ikaso sa kanya. hindi na po kami pwde magsama kong ang ugali pa din niya ay hindi nagbabago kaya po siya umalis iniwanan niya kami pati anak namin kasi di niya kaya ang obligasyon niya na maging asawa.tas nalaman ko na lang po na may kinakasama na sa lebanon ng 8 yrs. ano po ba dapat ang gawin namin atty. sa totoo lang andito pa po kc kami sa dubai ng kinakasama ko wala pang plan na umuwi at magbakasyon. sa ngayon po atty. mga anak ko ay nasa magulang ko at wala sa kanya wala po siyang binibigay na suporta hinayaan lang niya mga anak ko dun na dapat siya ang nag aalaga. atty. ano po ba pwde gagawin
Mike Tolentino
is in United Arab Emirates
actually atty. nsa pinas po siya ngayon kasama ng bago niyang kinakasama

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Adelaimar C Arias-Jose

I am a graduate of the UP College of Law. Member of the Integrated Bar of the Philippines since 1995. I am currently involved in private practice in criminal, civil and labor law.
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Adelaimar C. Arias-Jose
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